Maintaining a relationship be it blood, Social or Martial is the biggest challenge in present era. This can be maintained by the following measures.
Balanced Neither too close Nor too far
Too much intimacy in a relationship leads to boredom after a sometime. When one moves too close, it loses its value and the other's eyelids will become heavy and he will realize that he will be never gone due to which there is a rift in the relationship.
Too much intimacy devalues one and numbs the other. Therefore, the intimacy in the relationship should be kept to a limit. While one is going through a tough time the other's show a lot of intimacy at that time will help to keep the Relationship going for a long time. So avoid too much intimacy all the time in order to keep self esteem and status alive.
In the same way, too much distance also creates Misunderstandings which played an important role in Ending the relationship. Distance in social Relationships makes relationship effective but in blood and Martial relations, distance proves to be much more dangerous which give rise to endless quarrels and misgivings. So balance should be maintained in the Relationship and avoid too much proximity and too much distance. Lack of contact breeds distance, so contact should be maintained from time to time.
Avoid Idealism in Relationship
Whether the relationship is Martial or Social, the principle of realism should be adopted. Most of the time people develop too much imagination in relationships. In love relationship as both parties make lofy claims and promises before Marriage, but when they come to the world of realism, all claims prove to be a wall of sand, which leads towards fights and distance which plays a key role in Ending the relationship.
Whatever you are, Whatever your position, explain to your lover in love relationship and avoid demonstration, this will improve and sustain the relationship. Therefore, the Principle of realism should be adopted in relationships and what is true should be told and not hidden, Idealism is only a world of dreams but the world we live in is the world of reality and there is no concept of Idealism here So adopt the principle of realism in every aspect of life and in every relationship. Idealism can be very dangerous for relationship because the World of reality is better because when relationship comes to the phase of realism the relationship move towards conflicts and quarrels, and at the final result is End of relationship with bitter memories.
Too Much possessiveness Controlled Freedom
Too much possessiveness in a relationship can bore the other person after a certain period of time. Human accept ownership to a certain extent. One party wants to make the other do what he wants and avoid what he doesn"t want by which the other becomes a victim of restriction and his freedom is lost. Man being the best of creation compromises his freedom to a certain extent, after which he turns towards rebellion and remains free it all happens in relationship. Man should claim on immovable things not on Humanbeings. Always claiming ownership in a relationship makes one the master and other the slave.
One should try that the relationship should be made and maintained from heart, there is a strong hope that the relationship will last for a long time. If both sides share the right of Ownership, it is much better. But I think possessiveness is a danger for a relationship and should be avoided. The psychology of the other should be understood in the relationship and it should be supported So that the relationship will definitely remains last.
Adopt Two Way Traffic policy
The most painful thing for any Humanbeing is one sided love and relationship. Both these things make a person hollow from within. In One sided relationship, One party is devalued and other becomes arrogant. A major cause of one sided relationship is lack of attention, Interest from one side. Loneliness is far better than one sided relationship. The principle of reciprocity should be seen in the relationship if it is not seen than it should be discarded.
If there is two-way traffic in the relationship then such a relationship will be maintained from the heart and there will be a lot of love and the relationship will remain last. If there is a commitment from both sides to maintain the relationship, then the relationship will still be effective that's why adopt the policy of two way tarffic in any kind of relationship, if it's not seen leave relationship early in order to save Self Esteem and value-
Communication At Proper Time
Sharing and communication are interlinked with eachother. In Relationship communication role is like the blood of Human life.Any kind of Relationship demands communication at Right time.
"In love Relationship Exchange Information, Emotions with your partner at right time in order to keep Relationship alive deep and more Effective".
In any Relationship communication is Compulsory at right time. When any one not communicate at right time that Might create Misunderstanding and quarrels which lead towards the downfall of relationship and that's reached at the End of relationship.
Similarly when one's in pain than it should tell his loving within time in order to test the relationship the other gives you value or not.At that point Relationship is purified whether you keep it or not. After one's get out of difficulty one always remembered who effort for me at time to get out of problem.This point should be keep in mind to test relationship.Lack of Communication creates the Misunderstanding which lead towards the destruction of Relationship.
So Communication plays a very vital role in Relationship and Communication at right time is as necessary as the breathe of Humanbeing-
