"The Body is a shop and the tongue is a lock. If the lock opens,it is known whether the shop is gold or coal".
One Experience from School life
In my school times there was a new teacher came in our school who was very tall and had a thick beard. So everyone made fun of them saying that they are from the hilly area,someone else made a different kind of joke. So one day in free period he came to our classroom and at first he sat quietly. Then after listening to one boy he said keep quiet to all the boy.
And said you people think that nothing will happen to what you will say. So know that the most powerful thing in you is your tongue. But you people are not familiar with arrow of the tongue they said that the arrow of the tongue is so poisonous that even if you speak it sweetly, it will seem harsher than a thorn.
He started saying Look a Husband and Wife love eachother very much. They are sitting together and suddenly the Husband says very lovingly my wife divorce you and repeat these words three times, see how lovingly he said these words. But these words are such arrows that they can neither see eachother nor talk to eachother. So control this arrow of the tongue otherwise it destroyed us very badly. "The Arrow of the Tongue" plays a very key role in how people end their relationship with eachother which I see in my life today.
People are Un Aware of this Arrow
We are not aware with the arrow of tongue. People often hurt many people with the arrow of their tongue. We people do not understand what we are saying How will it effect others? Often sitting together words come out of our mouths that are very harmful to someone sitting in the gathering. And may be he is sick of poor heart, and our words will be the cause of his death.That is why our Elder who have an experience of the world say think well before you speak How will what you say affect the listener?
Always speak well and try to control the arrow of the tongue. Our tongue is used in most of the works, in a joke or in someone's backbiting or in someone's gossip. There is a famous saying that the wound of the tongue is stronger than the wound of the sword this is because a wound inflicted by a sword may heal but a tongue wound never heals.
Man identifed by his sweet tongue
A person is identified not by his appearance but by his good behavior and the sweeteness of his tongue. You will find many such people in the society on whose face you will always see a smile these people will have loving words, after listening you will get a lot of comfort, then you will think that you should be friend with such a person.
He's a lot of fun to talk to so i say that Here you should not follow someone's virtue after seeing it but develop that virtue in yourself so that people behind you, say everything then say something we are sitting to listen to you, so this thing arises when you try to sweet talk with others.
On the contrary, the one who has a harsh language and whose face is angry all the time, the people will stay away from him. No one want to talk with such a person and people will say that it is only a person and not a humanbeing. So the sweet tongue identified the humanbeing good behavior and Nature.
Conclusion
Ever observe in life and pay attention to the people around you what's their lifestyle? You will find such seniors that after talking to them,you will not want to talk to them again. A wave of anger will be one their foreheads and they will talk back and respond in extreme anger because they are not aware from the arrow of the tongue because they never think that what they will say How will it effect others?
Similarly, people who speak sweetly like to meet them and remember them forever because whenever they speak, they will speak good.
If we people understand how our words will affect others, then we people may also get those fragrant words that smell the whole society and our people are eager to hear.
Try to create simplicity through your tongue and implement it practically in your life. This is the hallmark of a great humanbeing.
Man leaves this world but his soft tone and sweet tongue will always be remembered.Try to become this kind of Man and inspires others to become.
