As we move forward in the race of life that's how much we are falling behind in relations to each other. The relationship is completely lost. Listen to any person talk and he w'll start telling you his story and his story will be mostly on the words that he is in pain no relation want to listen his pain so many difficulty arises with this, we even silence him by saying that our story is not different from yours.
The same is happening to us no one is looking to hear anyone, we are all suffering from the same disease / pain and that no one want to hear us.
Comparison with past time
It's been a while since these situations did not happen before, Rather everyone seemed satisfied as if he didn't any problems, why did it matter? And then why this worry and anxiety started appearing in this era of person, then we will talk about it.
So if we look back to the time when people used to sit together in the Evening and chat among themselves and explain their problems and the senior people of that area were also present to listen to these problems. Who would listen to the problems of those people and solve them, when the person who had a problem would be satisfied by explaining the problem to him maybe now this problem will be solved . If the person had any financial problem, he would be helped as a brotherhood.
At that time, if anyone had a problem, he would explain it, but nowadays every person hides the problem due to which he looks more worried. But nowadays people don't even give time to listen to other people. Problems are solved by telling, not by hiding.
Fond of calling Modern
Then the people living in our society got fond of being called modern. And this hobby gradually reached all the people and in every society it created its influence and strengthened it roots.
The people started moving away from collectivism towards individualism and individual thinking started developing. Then a thought arose that bring yourself up, no one is yours, you are only your own, and then that person became distant from his blood relations. And then there is a time come for this person that when he has any grief, no one share his grief. We then see the pain and worry on the face of the person everywhere, and we see that person moving from place to place to solve the problem.
We have gone so far to make ourselves modern and advanced that we have actually forgotten ourselves. We all thought that there is only one thing that guarantees progress in the world and that is wealth. To earn wealth, a thought will arise in us that everyone blood relation is our enemy. We want so far to earn wealth that we lost our own.
Adopt habit of consulting with Elders
"Elders are always available to listen everybody conversation at any time."
"Elders never give you an excuse that we don't have time, they will say you tell your problem try to solve your problem, and with that person start to feel light".
Adpot this policy in life once you will surely get results.
Our elders who have seen the highs and lows of life and have a great experience of life. Our elder teach us that son, always keep your ears open for other peoples and listen to them as much as you can, that when you listen to others, that Lord will listen to you. Elders say that if we really listen to eachother, all our problems will End. Our elders have a special life experience. So whenever they talk, it will contain the essence of their life experience. When you listen to them, you will feel a change inside you, I am not saying this, I have experienced this myself in my life.
Our Elders teach us that you should listen to people and give others a shoulder to lean on and tell you about their situation. So if we want to modernize ourselves, then do it, but why leave our side alone in this race.
Due to elders, there is a lot of prosperity in the house and in the society as well. But our young generation completely ignores this and treats elders with disdain and says where did they have life experience, we have internet social media lot of friends we have no need of elders. whenever they are in crisis elder helped him to solve crisis and than youth feel elders are blessing and world of social media is fake.
Give respect to your elders listen to them and listen to them too.
Listen to save Humanity
Today humanity sees you very short. Nowadays, people don't care to listen eachother and even look at distant things. Selfishness has totally lapsed the standard of humanity. Many people nowadays commit suicide or get themselves into depression. Have we ever noticed why has this happened? Why people are going to this state, there is a reason behind it. And the main reason is that no other person want to listen other person, totally ignore people and make lame excuses lack of time.
People don't care about humanity their only goal is to make as much money as possible. Lust for making money has never ended and will never end. Listen people talk to save their life from depression, worries and Anxieties.
Rich people turns to psychologist to talk about their problems in order to calmdown theirself. But the real problem is of poor people who cann't afford psychologist and in result they went into state of extreme depression and end result is suicide.
So save Humanity and adopt the habit of listening peoples in order to bring peace and prosperity in society.
Conclusion
Our entire nation is worried that the Rulers do not listen to us so first listen to eachother, when you listen to eachother, they will automatically listen to you. And I challenge you to say that if we listen to eachother, we will not need these rulers.
So now it becomes our responsibility to give some precious time to ourselves, our blood relations, and the weak people of our society.
Give time to your children from the beginning so that the change come in their life and don't go astray. Let us love our next generation with the same love we used to get from our elders yesterday. Here we find the real purpose of life, this advancement of life is not our future, whether we admit it or not.
Now create a society where no one goes to a psychologist to share their grief, who take advantage of our flaw and collect money from us. If we listen to others, many evils may be eliminated in this society. Humanity may goes on high rank in society due to listening others. People get rid of psychological diseases due to listen others and bring change in society.
